Actually all those who cross the finish line are winners.
It’s just that only the first ones are awarded.
This is the only difference.
If you can look at your life’s situations the same than you can understand you never lose.
You are a winner anyhow, even if you don’t get the award.
As long as you learn something out of that situation, for sure you are a winner.
And if you keep this attitude present in your every day life you’ll be a winner always!